Childhood love

Today moments of pain / coldness from my childhood floats up to me, when I start to feel or find love from my childhood, I realised I have been very fortunate to be surrounded by love from my friends, teachers, neighbours, grand parents, aunties and uncles. At this point, my Achilles heel is still my family and my parents. 

Then I realised, in a situation of pain, there must be support of love coming from somewhere otherwise the person won’t be able to survive. Since the person (eg. Me) is able to survive, there must be sources of love which had been buried in the sea of painful memories. If one were to feel the love from the past once again, the healing starts. 

I’m not pushing to recover from my family entirely now, I’m trying to heal myself from the wounds that came up as and when they come and try to remember and strengthen the love memories I have in the past to help me with my now, my future and my wound healing. ❤️💓❤️💓

Happy with and without possessions

This morning I saw a professional looking woman sitting in a cafe. That’s the kind of person I would like to be. However, after reading the article “World’s Greatest Lover”, I realised even if I’m a professional woman but if I’m not happy, what’s the point of being one?

There’s so much one can consume can take from this limited lifespan. What’s important is to be happy with these blessings and in the process of accumulating more of these blessings, be happy about it. After all, the objective of this life is to be happy. Happy when u have it and happy in the pursuit of it when U don’t have it now. That’s the purpose of life isn’t it?

Be a Trusted and Trust-worthy Friend

I read about this article and it strikes me to remind me of being a friend and value-add to people thus creating more influence as a leader.

With the rise of Internet, I reckon it seems to be harder to be a sincere friend due to lesser face-time and more virtual time that promotes trolling and edited comments.

Unfortunately, life is still primitive in the sense we are dealing with people and their emotions, not machines and their systems (not yet, that is). We do need to be a sincere friend especially to our close ones and the influential ones. Of course, where those negative people are concerned, we can still be a friend to let them cool down and be alone. We don’t need negative people around in our world, doesn’t value-add and move the world with negative dragging energy.

http://www.ziglar.com/business/all-business-about-relationships?inf_contact_key=43c2e4752fd41445a9c68f1506f14e67481f52f1bdeb5aedb7e212384f0d5f8c

郑博士供朋友们成功的观念

1、穷人缺什么:表面缺资金,本质缺野心,脑子缺观念,机会缺了解,骨子缺勇气,改变缺行动,事业缺毅力
2、世界上最聪明的人是借用别人撞的头破血流的经验作为自己的经验,世界上最愚蠢的人是非用自己撞得头破血流的经验才叫经验
3、不要抱着过去不放,拒绝新的观念和挑战
4、每个人都有退休的一天,但并不是每个人都能拥有退休后的保障
5、生命不在于活得长与短,而在于顿悟的早与晚
6、人生的成败往往就在一念之间,但大多数都是一念之差
7、年轻是本钱,但不努力就不值钱
8、天上最美的是星星,人间最美的是真情
9、舍得有限,赢得无限
10、人往往拿着书籍的东西来判断无知的事物;人往往拿着错误的推论当正确的结论
11、与其战胜敌人一万次,不如战胜自己一次
12、给人金钱是下策,给人能力是中策,给人观念是上策
13、富就富在不知足,贵就贵在能脱俗。贫就贫在少见识,贱就贱在没骨气
14、当你将信心放在自己身上时,你将永远充满力量
15、计较眼前的人,会失去未来
16、罗斯福总统:当时间的主人,命运的主宰,灵魂的舵手
17、富人靠资本赚钱,穷人靠知识致富
18、我们人这一辈子不是别人的楷模,就是别人的借鉴
19、别人看不起您,很不幸;自己看不起自己,更不幸。
20、我们穷人要翻身,没有理由讲辛苦;我们穷人要翻身,没有理由讲兴趣
21、世界上什么都可以失去,不可以失去希望,世界上什么都可以失去,不可以失去信心
22、智者创造机会,强者把握机会,弱者等待机会
23、人有二亩田,白天的一亩田是填饱肚子,晚上的一亩田是耕种自己的未来
24、陪孩子读书长大是个人,给孩子观念长大后是人才
25、一无所有是一种财富,它让穷人产生改变命运的行动
26、宁可被人笑一时,不可被人笑一辈子
27、不识货,半世苦;不识人,一世苦
28、我们可以失去童年,但是千万不可以失去童心
29、活鱼会逆流而上,死鱼才会随波逐流
30、吃别人所不能吃的苦,忍别人所不能忍的气,做别人所不能做的事,就能享受别人所不能享受的一切
31、一件事被所有人都认为是机会的时候,其实它已不是机会了。