Today moments of pain / coldness from my childhood floats up to me, when I start to feel or find love from my childhood, I realised I have been very fortunate to be surrounded by love from my friends, teachers, neighbours, grand parents, aunties and uncles. At this point, my Achilles heel is still my family and my parents.
Then I realised, in a situation of pain, there must be support of love coming from somewhere otherwise the person won’t be able to survive. Since the person (eg. Me) is able to survive, there must be sources of love which had been buried in the sea of painful memories. If one were to feel the love from the past once again, the healing starts.
I’m not pushing to recover from my family entirely now, I’m trying to heal myself from the wounds that came up as and when they come and try to remember and strengthen the love memories I have in the past to help me with my now, my future and my wound healing. ❤️💓❤️💓
This morning I saw a professional looking woman sitting in a cafe. That’s the kind of person I would like to be. However, after reading the article “World’s Greatest Lover”, I realised even if I’m a professional woman but if I’m not happy, what’s the point of being one?
There’s so much one can consume can take from this limited lifespan. What’s important is to be happy with these blessings and in the process of accumulating more of these blessings, be happy about it. After all, the objective of this life is to be happy. Happy when u have it and happy in the pursuit of it when U don’t have it now. That’s the purpose of life isn’t it?
I read about this article and it strikes me to remind me of being a friend and value-add to people thus creating more influence as a leader.
With the rise of Internet, I reckon it seems to be harder to be a sincere friend due to lesser face-time and more virtual time that promotes trolling and edited comments.
Unfortunately, life is still primitive in the sense we are dealing with people and their emotions, not machines and their systems (not yet, that is). We do need to be a sincere friend especially to our close ones and the influential ones. Of course, where those negative people are concerned, we can still be a friend to let them cool down and be alone. We don’t need negative people around in our world, doesn’t value-add and move the world with negative dragging energy.